Here you'll find a variety of techniques that will enable you to get the most out of your new Fleshlight. We'll be filling the left hand side with links to pages on how to use your Fleshlight every month.
Basic Fleshlight Use
ILF, the manufacturer of the various Fleshlight models, instructs the user to:
- Remove the insert from the case and immerse in warm water for 5 minutes
- When the Fleshlight is up to a comfortable temperature, replace the insert within the case
- Apply some water based lubricant (ID Glide is recommended)
- Lay on your back, insert your penis within the orifice and begin moving the device up and down along the shaft of the penis until orgasm is achieved.
Real World Fleshlight Use
While the above sounds good, the truth is, people don't want to wait around for water to heat up their Fleshlight and, when you do employ this method, you'll soon discover a fine mist of water being expelled from the end of the case on each downstroke — very distracting indeed, though it does go away fairly soon after you start using it.
The Fleshlight works just fine without water when you only apply a little lubricant. In fact, if you apply too much lubricant, the sensations the product produces are greatly diminished. Fortunately, if this happens, you can keep going and eventually the lubricant inside will dry to a more ideal level. It takes a few tries to learn what the best lubricant amount is right for you and your model of Fleshlight, but you can always easily apply just a little more — the reverse is impossible, and just takes time to dry up.
Alternative Fleshlight Techniques
The number of ways to use a Fleshlight is only limited by your imagination. Why not try the following:
- Put the Fleshlight between the mattresses of your bed which will allow you to employ a hands-free approach to using the product. This method simulates actual intercourse very well and has actually led to the development of a specialty product by ILF, the Liberator Fleshlight Mount and the Hands-Free Training Package.
- A variation on the above would be to put the Fleshlight between two pillows and use the product in the same manner you would with a partner in the missionary position. This also can be facilitated by placing the unit in a shoe, which creates the appropriate angle.
- Install a vibrator in your Fleshlight and take the unit to a whole new level of pleasure. See video on linked page.
- Have your partner use the Fleshlight on you; they might enjoy it just as much as you!